I am a firm believer in praise to reinforce behavior rather than criticism. It seems I am always trying to give positive comments to my daughters and the other day it occurred to me that they may find my affection to be based solely on their performance.
To extinguish this belief I sat down with them and was explaining that my love was not based on conditions. I stated, "Girls, I just want you to know that my love for you is unconditional." Marissa said coyly, "You mean you will still love me even if I don’t use conditioner." She gave me one one of her satisfied grins.
She’s definitely her dads daughter.
Praying for you to be as real as possible…to find yourself in Him and all that He is in you.
Now that is funny Michelle. Just found your blog and love it. Look forward to reading more real soon!
Hey Michelle. I read some of your blog. I think you are well written and you have definetely conveyed part of yourself. I am impressed.
Parenting is THE hardest thing in the world, especially when you have a free-spirited independent pre-teen … believe me, I can relate:) Unconditional love can also difficult to accept for some kids (and adults too)- just keep on keeping on mirroring Jesus in your life – you ARE making a difference in the lives of your daughters.